He cheated on me, now he wants my email passwords, bcoz the guy he cheated me with gave him his. Should I?

About two weekends ago he cheated on me with his colleague, in our house on our bed. now the guy he cheated on me with tells him he loves him and has given my boyfriend his email passwords. i'm not sure if my b/f went thru his emails. this has caused a huge strain in the relationship. it has become difficult to work on the problem of him cheating. Now he is demanding my email password. He views what the guy he cheated me with did by giving him his passoword as this grand getsure that shows he is pure, and trustworthy. i got no problem giving him my password, but not for the reason that the guy he cheated me with gave him his. i still love my b/f, but now it has become so difficult with this guy in the picture. they go to the same college, they see each other all the time, i dont know what happens when they meet. this weekend they are going on a workshop together. i'm just so lost, hurt. Please advise.

He cheated on me, now he wants my email passwords, bcoz the guy he cheated me with gave him his. Should I?
Dump him like a hot rock. Pile his clothes on the front step and change the locks. Change your password to something he'll never guess.





Are you weak-willed and stupid, or did you just want to hear us say it? It doesn't matter how your private parts fit or who does what to whom; without trust there can be no love, be you gay, straight or bi.
Reply:absolutely NOT...dont give anyone that info...please??
Reply:My BF and I have been together 6 years and I still lock my PC when I walk away. My emails are none of his business and his are his own business.





Your passwords are private and should stay that way. You can forward anything you want him to see and vice versa.





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Or yeah... you could just dump his sorry a55
Reply:That was very hard to understand but anyway just dump him and move on. He's not worth the trouble if this is the kind of person he is.
Reply:All you can do is trust him not to do it again...But i would have already broken up with him...
Reply:Seems as if he's trying to make YOU prove that YOU love him more than his affair! It also sounds like he's trying to decide between the two of you, and if there is tension in your relationship, that he's leaning in HIS direction, not yours! I've been where you are...Yes you are hurting, but, it WILL get better...You have to love YOU, and respect yourself to see/realize when you're in a situation like this. As it is, everyone is getting love, EXCEPT you...Love you, and love yourself waaaay more than someone who isn't putting you 1st! Keep loving you and, when you're ready, someone else will, 2 (not lopsidedly)! All the Best to YOU!
Reply:Don麓t do it! This is your privacy. Do you know what he is doing with those? Writing e-mails in your name, ordering things in your name???????????


DON麓T BE STUPID
Reply:youre pass word and info is for you ONLY I don't think you should ever give it out they could rip you off. by the way he's no good dump him it will be hard but you need to forget about him and go on with YOUR life
Reply:Oh please- dump the bastard!


Good luck!
Reply:1. Do NOT give him your password! HE is the one with the


IMpure and UNtrustworthy issues. He's a dam cheat!


2. Get rid of him! He had sex in YA'LL'S bed!!??? What


nerve! He might come home with something neither one


of you can wash off!! You don't need diseases.


3. You can do better than him. They will and do spend too


much time together and you will always have doubts. Get


rid of the loser.
Reply:dump the loser--he just wants that information to do you dirt.
Reply:I say you get all of HIS passwords, etc. and see what he's up to! It sounds like he's the untrustworthy one!

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